The Paradox of Pitfalls: Finding Your Strengths in ‘Weaknesses’

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Have you ever been told by someone, “Don’t be so (fill in the blank)?” Maybe it was “Don’t be so emotional,” or “Don’t be so impulsive,” or “Don’t be so sensitive.” Hearing these words can sting, but it’s important to remember that behind every pitfall there is a quality, like the sun behind the shadow.

Often, when someone says “Don’t be so (fill in the blank),” what they are really saying is that they are uncomfortable with your behavior or emotions. However, the quality behind this pitfall is that you are in touch with your emotions and able to express them. This is a valuable trait that should be celebrated, not suppressed.

For example, if someone tells you not to be so emotional, it may be because they feel overwhelmed or uncomfortable with your display of feelings. However, being emotional is not inherently bad. In fact, it can be a sign of empathy, vulnerability, and authenticity. It shows that you care deeply about something or someone and are willing to express that care openly. So instead of hiding your emotions, embrace them and use them to connect with others on a deeper level.

And if someone tells you not to be so sensitive, it may be because they perceive your reactions as overly dramatic or exaggerated. However, the quality behind the pitfall is that you are attuned to…



Albert Heemeijer — Author at Balboa / HayHouse🖊

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